Post by Elizabeth on Dec 19, 2018 10:41:53 GMT -8
My doctor thinks I should start taking anti-depressants and said I have subclinical depression. I'm not surprised, but I'm wondering what does that mean for my spiritual state as a believer? I feel like my environment is too much for me and I'm spiritually isolated because of religious beliefs and family constraints. In other words I don't have what G-d gives us to cope with life in my life. It just seems almost natural to be depressed in my circumstances, so I kind of struggle through waiting for G-d to help and guide or listening to the doctor.
My experience is not consistent with most believers based on what I hear. I have been dealing with it by just trying to find ways to better handle my circumstances according to G-d, but nothing is changing. It feels like the better I do the worse my circumstances get, and now the doctor wants me to take medication so apparently my approach of just struggling through isn't working.
So all of this just seems contrary to trusting in G-d. I do trust G-d, but the truth is I need help and my environment isn't changing. The only help I seem to have is secular so I have been refusing it and just wait and pray. Now, I find out what im going through is big enough issue that the doctor thinks I can't overcome it and wants to help. I didn't complain of anything except low energy and she said every time she sees me she thinks "subclinical depression". She says she just sees it in me. So it's like if the doctor can see it, why hasn't G-d d done anything by now.
I'm not having peace and contentment in my daily life except by just convincing myself G-d will help because I feel set up for failure and almost like all that's left is the secular world's solutions. So I wait and work to adjust to my life in some G-dly fashion, but apparently, what I'm doing hasn't worked to the point the doctor thinks I need medical intervention. I know something needs to be done, yet, I don't have anything left to do. So I wait for G-d and just try to look at it as refining what needs to be refined. But pressure seems to characterize my life, and I'm not spiritually handling it well consistently. It's making me sick and exhausted and so I have that much less to handle it well. So in some ways it makes sense to take medication just so I can be better for my family. But that feels wrong spiritually- your life isn't working so take a chemical to help you accept a life that isn't working. It feels like just another way to escape something wrong in your life that needs to be dealt with.
Meanwhile, I've been asking and waiting for G-d to help me deal with what needs to be dealt with, but He's not. I thought just accepting it and trying to be G-dly through it while waiting for Him was trusting and the best I could do, but the doctor sees that my life is too much for me too. I don't know. Someone caring and wanting to help me is nice, but it feels like I'm giving up on G-d if I take it. It feels like a step back toward worldliness, but maybe I really do need it because I need something to change. I just wait and what I do to try and help myself get through spiritually till He moves either gets shut down before I can do it or taken away somehow. It feels like yet another worldly solution I'm being forced into to deal with spiritual constraints I can't overcome. But something has to change because I'm really doing the best I can, and its not working.
My experience is not consistent with most believers based on what I hear. I have been dealing with it by just trying to find ways to better handle my circumstances according to G-d, but nothing is changing. It feels like the better I do the worse my circumstances get, and now the doctor wants me to take medication so apparently my approach of just struggling through isn't working.
So all of this just seems contrary to trusting in G-d. I do trust G-d, but the truth is I need help and my environment isn't changing. The only help I seem to have is secular so I have been refusing it and just wait and pray. Now, I find out what im going through is big enough issue that the doctor thinks I can't overcome it and wants to help. I didn't complain of anything except low energy and she said every time she sees me she thinks "subclinical depression". She says she just sees it in me. So it's like if the doctor can see it, why hasn't G-d d done anything by now.
I'm not having peace and contentment in my daily life except by just convincing myself G-d will help because I feel set up for failure and almost like all that's left is the secular world's solutions. So I wait and work to adjust to my life in some G-dly fashion, but apparently, what I'm doing hasn't worked to the point the doctor thinks I need medical intervention. I know something needs to be done, yet, I don't have anything left to do. So I wait for G-d and just try to look at it as refining what needs to be refined. But pressure seems to characterize my life, and I'm not spiritually handling it well consistently. It's making me sick and exhausted and so I have that much less to handle it well. So in some ways it makes sense to take medication just so I can be better for my family. But that feels wrong spiritually- your life isn't working so take a chemical to help you accept a life that isn't working. It feels like just another way to escape something wrong in your life that needs to be dealt with.
Meanwhile, I've been asking and waiting for G-d to help me deal with what needs to be dealt with, but He's not. I thought just accepting it and trying to be G-dly through it while waiting for Him was trusting and the best I could do, but the doctor sees that my life is too much for me too. I don't know. Someone caring and wanting to help me is nice, but it feels like I'm giving up on G-d if I take it. It feels like a step back toward worldliness, but maybe I really do need it because I need something to change. I just wait and what I do to try and help myself get through spiritually till He moves either gets shut down before I can do it or taken away somehow. It feels like yet another worldly solution I'm being forced into to deal with spiritual constraints I can't overcome. But something has to change because I'm really doing the best I can, and its not working.